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I stand in between both solstice; slashed, tortured, LOST.




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Before you, my life was like a moonless night. Very dark, but there were stars - points of light and reason. And then you shot across my sky like a meteor. Suddenly everything was on fire; there was brilliancy, there was beauty. When you were gone, when the meteor had fallen over horizon, everything went black. Nothing had changed, but my eyes were blinded by the light. I couldn't see the stars anymore. And there was no more reason for anything.

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Thursday, June 11, 2009




交一個新朋友,就猶如聽一首新歌一樣。
當一個新人在你某人生階段出現,什麼樣的情況下會讓你想進一步認識這個人,或放棄這段還沒開始的友誼?其實很簡單,大家都需要時間來互相了解。因為大家對新認識的朋友和對陳年悠久的老友的態度不會一樣。你是否會願意給彼此時間認識,或白目地相信有老朋友就夠了?

有些新歌,聽第一次聽不出什麼。但聽了第二遍、第三遍、四遍、五遍,甚至可能要聽五十遍才能聽出耳油。然后你就會很訝異地發現,哇!原來這是一首好歌。重點是你有沒有耐心把那個點找出來。那一個小小點,可能能改變你的一生。同樣的,你也可能需要很久的時間從人的身上找出這讓你喜歡,讓你享受的那一點。

一首好歌是怎麼求也可能求不到的,要是因為聽第一次聽不出什麼而放棄,那不是很可惜嗎?一首好歌可以感染你、正面影響你。這是為什麼好歌會有那麼多人推薦。但不要忽略那些還沒被發掘的好歌。很多好歌和很多好人都是慢熱型,如果花多點時間能換來一個好朋友,不是很好嗎?

你不知道,眼前這新人可能就是你的貴人,會在人生荊棘密布的道路上與你並肩作戰,是你未知的好朋友。我之所以會說這些是因為我見過很多負面的例子。為什麼有些人就是那麼心胸狹窄,無法接受新事物?是在害怕什麼?當然,我不否認好歌/好友的定義是很主觀的。

不要那麼快就否定一首歌,因為一首好歌得來不易。
也不要那麼快否定一個人,因為一個好友難能可貴。




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